Well, it's not perfect...

But it's a start.

I was going to say, “I’m a perfectionist,” but I thought better of it. Rather, I should say I suffer from perfectionism. Now, I can happily say “I am a father” or “I am a husband.” I feel okay making these kinds of identity statements, in part because I “am” those things to and for someone. I’m someone’s husband. I’m several someones’ dad. But perfectio…